About Tantra
What is Tantra
"The word 'tantra' means the technique, the method, the way, so it is not philosophical. It is not concerned with intellectual problems and investigations. It is not concerned with the 'why' of things: it is concerned with the 'how', not with what truth is but with how it can be attained".
Tantra uses hundreds of techniques to strip away all the conditioning of your armour, social, religious, moralistic and repressive, and to reach the state of absolute freedom, which is why it is confused with technique. But make no mistake, the techniques only serve to dismantle your ego. Nothing more and nothing less.
Tantra invites you to go inside and become more aware of yourself. Your fears, your judgements, your beliefs, your habits, your wounds, your body, your energy, your consciousness. It is the pure observation of all the contradictions of being human: man-woman, sadness-joy, love-hate, sex-spirit. Without judgement, without repression, without rejecting anything. Welcoming everything in your heart.
"The key principle of tantra lies in the fact that the universe we experience is the concrete manifestation of the divine energy that creates and maintains it: tantric practices seek to contact and channel that energy into the human microcosm."
- David Gordon White
A connection with your deepest self
Tantric Massage
What is the purpose of tantric massage?
Tantric massage is a massage technique that is part of the teachings of Tantra, with a spiritual purpose, healing and connection through the union of soul to soul, releasing the veils of the EGO and the limitations of the mind. Through bodywork, the aim is to awaken the sexual energy, the Kundalini energy, the energy of life, in a natural and loving way, and with the utmost care towards the client.
The ultimate aim of awakening this energy is to help the client to free his body, in a progressive way, not necessarily in a single session, of those energetic blockages that limit him in the full enjoyment of life. By awakening the Kundalini energy, higher states of consciousness can be reached by working at the energetic level in the subtle body.
Amongst the many benefits of tantric massage, the client can improve their relationships, increase their vital energy, increase their confidence and security, increase their sensations, etc.
What are the benefits of tantric massage?
The benefits of this massage are not only intended to stimulate the sexual desire of the couple, but it is also an excellent technique to get rid of anxiety and to get to know one's own body:
- Relaxing the musculature and contractures
- Stimulate and calm the nervous system
- Relax the joints
- Relieve aches and pains
- Restore metabolic balance
- Reactivate blood and lymphatic circulation
- Stimulate the body's own self-healing capacity
- Relaxing the mind
- Provide health and well-being
- Sensitises the body
- Helps awaken and expand sexual energy throughout the body
Massage is one of the most beautiful forms of communication between lovers, it relaxes and sensitizes, blesses and purifies. It is an ecstatic dance that brings people closer to their original divine form. A ritual of adoration of the body that allows us to feel the most sublime joy of all, to feel Love.
- Verma
What is the difference between erotic massage and tantric massage?
Tantric massage is not an erotic massage, which has as its purpose orgasm or male or female ejaculation, nor intercourse between client and masseur. It is an integral massage technique through which we work on the physical, emotional and spiritual levels. This integral work of the body includes the massage of yoni or lingam (genitality), if the person gives consent for it. The massage takes place in a sacred space of deep respect and care.
During the practice of massage a genuine encounter between two human beings takes place. In tantric massage the client is in the attitude of receiving, and the masseur (Daka or Dakini) is in the attitude of giving, of service to the client. The Daka or Dakini are the channels of transmission of the universal masculine energy (Shiva), or in his case of the universal feminine sexual energy (Shakti).
In this way there is no identification with the person giving the massage, but in the process of giving, the Daka/Dakinis become a channel, transmitters of energy of love, time, touch, and consciousness so that the person receiving can surrender and abandon themselves to the process of feeling and receiving, to their own healing process.
This does not mean that tantric massage is better or worse than erotic massage, this judgement comes from the mind conditioned by religion and society. They are different massages that reach different people according to their personal and spiritual path.
I feel scared to be obliged to do things that I don’t want.
This holistic work on the body includes yoni or lingam (genital) massage, if the person so consents.
The massage is performed in a sacred space of deep respect and care.
And apart from the client's prior consent, in case there are parts of the body that do not want to be touched, throughout the massage the massage therapist is always listening in presence and attentive at all times to the body's reactions in a continuous interaction with the client, especially non-verbal.
Tantra: alone or with a partner?
Tantra is mainly an individual path.
A path of freedom.
I recommend starting with an individual path, through the massage for example, and then considering taking part in seminars or couple sessions that you can do with your partner.
What to read about tantra ?
Osho : The Book of secrets – The royal song of Saraha – Tantra supreme Understanding
Krishnananda : From codependence to love. Face to face with the environment.
Ketan Raventós Klein: Sanar el Corazón
David Frawley : Inner Tantric Yoga – Tantric Yoga and the Wisdom Godesses
Diane Richardson : Tantra, love and sex - Slow sex - Tantric orgasme for women
David Deida : Enlightened sex manual - In intimate communion -The way of the superior man
Keith Dowan : Sky Dancer – The secret Life and Songs of the Lady Yeshe Tsogyel
Helen S. Kaplan : Illustrated Handbook of Sex Therapy
The magnet and the duality created by the fake New Age "masters"
In the magnet there are two poles. One positive and the other negative. And even if you try to separate them, in each piece there will always be the negative part as well as the positive part.
Obviously nobody here feels superior or wants to teach anything. There are no gurus, no good or bad. So the moment I create a world in which I am among the righteous, the conscious, while others are unconscious; the moment you feel very superior, more elevated, but the world is still unconscious; it is actually you who is reinforcing the unconsciousness.
That is why the great true teachers have never taught the New Age nonsense that tries to divide the north from the south, the good from the bad, and only reinforces the struggle in the world. They have always spoken of compassion not to do to others what you would not want done to you, regardless of whether they are good or bad, conscious or unconscious, of your religion or following your guru.
Now this is a fundamental thing to understand, in fact the servants, I like the term servant better than master because the master inflates the ego, the servants in the new consciousness are those who have stopped trying to break and divide the good from the bad.
And one of the examples is precisely the fact that when we are inwardly divided in the struggle: the unvaccinated with the vaccinated, the pro-Putin versus the pro-Zelensky, the communists versus the fascists, the right-wing versus the left-wing, the meditating versus the non-meditating; we are reinforcing this duality in the world and so we cannot help the world to go beyond,
to that beyond where the light of God shines
and true peace shines.
That is why many "masters" who have learnt techniques and tell them to others, unfortunately while telling techniques they reinforce this illusion in the world, because they do not have enough purple aura around them, because they have not done inner clicks. They have only learnt techniques and repeat them. That's good in some things.
For example, I learn mathematics and I can teach it to you, okay? I don't have to look brilliant. I've learnt maths and I can teach it to you. I've got a good understanding of how to make cakes, I don't have to have the aura of the Buddha, I'm making a cake. Or I know how to play the violin well, so I can teach you how to play the violin.
Meanwhile, in this inner dimension, I can't teach you something if you haven't made an inner click.
However, I can show you something that can facilitate those inner clicks.
Like tantric massage for example.
And that is why in the new consciousness it is no longer important what your teacher is, what your religion is, what is important is the direct contact with reality beyond thought.
That alone makes you a servant, not an expert in a technique, it is not because you have been meditating for 50 years that you are an expert in meditation. You may have been sitting for 50 years with your head full of thoughts, but you think you are an expert. It doesn't work like violin or mathematics. Maybe someone sits in meditation and already from the first few times you discover something beyond you that you have been trying for 50 years, because you are still too much into the technique.
What happens? While people give too much importance to diplomas, to techniques, to experts; life doesn't. And life is wonderful. And life is wonderful.
The moment what you emanate in the world starts to be minimally luminous in truth, no matter what others say about you, life will put you in a position to serve. And you will feel that the most important thing in your life is to serve and not to try to appear to be a servant of others. Because you will realise that others cannot see yet, because they are still in your head.
Just listen to that inner call that says: serve, without expecting a result. Serve, without others calling you master, just serve. It is not for you to decide what, how. And that's why in the new consciousness mastery is totally inverted, a child is a master rather than a person who knows a technique. He is good at violin, he is good at mathematics but he is not good at inner clicks.
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